Bi-Me-A-Drink

thecreatureix:

Written in late 2010.

I love you.

In the past I refrained from telling you this because I felt that you had a different idea about what love is, and that you would think that I loved you in that way. I want to tell you that I love you, and I want to explain the type of…

Lovely.

thebiblog:

The hardest part of being out and bisexual isn’t what you’d expect. Yes, I’ve experienced icy glares and unpleasant comments when out with female partners, and I know that being perceived as a lesbian in public could be dangerous. While I’ve thankfully been spared any personal experience, I’m acutely aware that hate crimes do happen. And bisexuals experience just as much homophobia as gays and lesbians when in same-sex relationships, and when publicly affiliated with LBGT events and organizations. Functionally, we’re no different when we’re involved in the gay community.

This problem comes up very frequently. LG folks say we’re confused, pretending, or even just hanging on to passing privilege; straight folks are just glad we’re not too gay, or think that we can still be fixed.

The thing is, speaking as part of the bisexual community, I am fine. There’s nothing wrong with being bisexual, nor is it an invalid part of who I am. Bisexual people deserve just as much visibility as other GSM’s.

We’re in the name LGBT, but we are sadly underrepresented in a lot of areas. In my experience, when I figured out that I was bisexual, I was scared that no one else was. When I met my first queer friends, we were surprised to find out that there were now two bisexuals in the same circle.

That’s the thing; bisexuality is still pretty invisible, and people mistreat it when it is up in their faces.

  • “Oh it’s just a trend.”
  • “You’ll grow out of that phase.”
  • “Bisexuals are sexy.”

Damn right we can be sexy, but we refuse to be turned into objects for your entertainment. Personally, I acknowledge that sexuality is fluid, but if someone identifies as bisexual, you have to respect that person as you would anyone else.

That’s all I’m really asking for because this part of me is not invalid; it’s just as different as anyone else’s parts.

People usually assume I am in an open relationship.

bi-pride:

bialogue-group:

Bisexual Buttons 1: These buttons are a fun way to show your non-monosexual pride during events, workshops, etc (added dash of glitter optional).

[Various badges, with text:
Love everyoneBeyond the Binary, Jan 25th-29th 2012[a black fist on a bi pride background]I [heart] being bisexualBiprideI [heart] peopleBiliciousThink beyond the binary!Question Assumptions!]


Good stuff.

bi-pride:

bialogue-group:

Bisexual Buttons 1: These buttons are a fun way to show your non-monosexual pride during events, workshops, etc (added dash of glitter optional).

[Various badges, with text:

Love everyone
Beyond the Binary, Jan 25th-29th 2012
[a black fist on a bi pride background]
I [heart] being bisexual
Bipride
I [heart] people
Bilicious
Think beyond the binary!
Question Assumptions!]

Good stuff.

I love this picture! :)

I love this picture! :)

bucklesinthesun:

fuckyeahbidolphin:

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Violent, flesh eating pervert? Hmmmm… lolActually I think the unicorn is a pretty good symbol for we bisexuals in that we’re thought to be myths, and the whole attitude of “omfg, you’re bi *finger cross* back! Back into the closet you horrible person” we sometimes encounter in the queer community.

Unicorn here!

bucklesinthesun:

fuckyeahbidolphin:

SUBMIT HERE

Violent, flesh eating pervert? Hmmmm… lol

Actually I think the unicorn is a pretty good symbol for we bisexuals in that we’re thought to be myths, and the whole attitude of “omfg, you’re bi *finger cross* back! Back into the closet you horrible person” we sometimes encounter in the queer community.

Unicorn here!

Word!

Word!

I agree and disagree with Raven Symone. Yes, sexual orientation is private. However, homophobia rarely gives gays any other option. Homophobia teaches that homosexuality is something to be hidden, kept out of sight, while heterosexuality can be broadcast and embraced. If sexual orientation is such a private thing then why do I know that George Washington had a wife? Why do I know that Malcom X had kids? The problem is that when it comes to homosexuality our sexual orientation has been as synonymous with our sexual activities. Heterosexual privilege affords heterosexuals the right to have their sexual orientation seen as separate from their sexual activities. A heterosexual can have a picture of their family on their desk and no one thinks “Ew. Vaginal/Penile sex at a wild orgy.” But if a homosexual has a picture of their family on their desk the assumption is that we take part in wild sex orgies and sacrifice blood. Homophobia denies us the right to have our sexual orientation seen as separate from our sexual activities. The two are lumped in. Which is why so many people think “Oh you’re gay? You have anal sex right?” And it’s like um.. presumptuous aren’t you? Homophobia denies humanity to gays by reducing us to our sexual acts. We are not people with sexual identities we are simply sexual acts.
Derrick Mac  (via zorascreation)
I say that intentionally.
I am not a lesbian. Not bi. Not straight. Not pan. Not gay.
I am queer. Intentionally. I intentionally use this term although others may apply.
Because being queer is political. It is fucking shit up. It is reconstructing broken elements. It is loving multiple sexes and genders and expressions, alone and simultaneously.
When I fuck my partner it is queer. When I am fucked it is queer. When I fuck myself it is queer.
My dress is just as queer as my combat boots.
I am always queer. Intentionally.

Femmes and Family: I am Queer Intentionally (via spiritd3sire)

This is awesome, and really brings me closer to identifying with queer. Something I’ve felt restricted from.

(via puteveryonetosleep)

Love it!